I'm taking a giant step back from politics. It may seem strange to do that on today of all days but it really came home to me today that politics are making me jaded. When I can no longer see the good in this country or find ANYTHING to celebrate about it on a day like today, it's time to take a step back. I've become entirely too jaded and no longer see the world the way I always have and the way I still want to.
I've always been a believer that there is more good than bad in the world. And that at their core, most people want to live in harmony with others. I've always believed it's only fear and misunderstanding that keeps that from happening. I've thought that if we could just find a way to eliminate that fear and if people could truly get to know someone who is "different" they'd see that they aren't actually so different after all. I've believed that this country is made up of good people who just want what they see as best for the country. And even if we don't agree on what we think is best, we can still respect each other and find a way to work together.
I'm finding it more and more difficult all the time to continue to believe any of that. I've seen a country so divided we would rather harm the country as a whole than let the other side gain an inch. I've seen people I always respected turn into bigots so full of fear and hate for people who are different that they grasp at straws to try and justify it. I'm starting to think people don't really want to live in harmony. That it's more than just fear and misunderstanding, they WANT to hate those who are different and will actively search out reasons to do so.
All of this is not only affecting my world view but my writing as well. I'm finding it hard to connect with my inner child. To find the innocence and wonder I used to see in the world and that carried over into my writing. I find that I'm being drawn to darker fiction (which isn't a bad thing for someone else but it is for me) where evil triumphs over good instead of the other way around. I'm finding it hard to write about characters with good in them. And that makes me sad.
I've been told I lived in a fantasy world before and that now I'm seeing things the way they truly are. I sure hope not. I hope the world is closer to the way I used to imagine it and that I've just become jaded and cynical and it has colored my perception. But even if the other was a fantasy world, I like it much better. And I'm going to try and get it back.
A good first step seems to be ignoring politics. I'll still support equality and fairness for everyone because it's not in my nature to do anything else but that's the extent of my political involvement for now. I'm going to search for the good I used to see in the world and try to ignore the bad until my perspective becomes more balanced.
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Sexy VS Sex objects
Yesterday I was reading about the sexism that exists toward female authors in the Sci Fi/Fantasy genre. It got me thinking about a related issue... the sexualization of female characters in many of those books. We all know that sex sells. That's the basis of a lot (and maybe even most) of the advertisements out there. And it works.
To some degree that applies to book covers as well. Especially Sci Fi/Fantasy books. How many books have we seen with scantily (and impractically) dressed women on the covers? The chain mail bikini has been a staple of fantasy art for generations. Those bikini clad women are sexy. Or are they? Are they actually strong sexy women or are they women being objectified and turned into NOTHING more than fodder for male fantasy?
And it's not just the covers either. The female characters in many of those books are either the "damsel in distress" who just stands there and screams or the warrior woman in the chain mail bikini. At least the bikini wearing warriors do something. At least they fight. But are they well rounded sexy characters or just cookie cutter sex objects?
I suspect it's the second one in most cases. Any female character who doesn't have enough sense to put on more than a chain mail bikini before she goes out to fight the bad guys is likely nothing more than eye candy. An intelligent female would know she needs to protect more than just her "assets" if she wants to survive. Hell, she doesn't even have to be all that intelligent to figure it out. If she has two brain cells to rub together, she knows fighting in a bikini is not usually the best idea. There's a lot of exposed flesh to get damaged.
Which brings me to my point... we can create strong intelligent female characters that are ALSO sexy without objectifying them. Sexy doesn't have to equal sex object. But unfortunately too many people don't see the difference.
There's nothing wrong with a female who is confident in herself and enjoys sex. There's nothing wrong with her showing off what she was given to it's best advantage. And there's nothing wrong with making her sexy. As long as that's not ALL there is to her. As long as sexy is just one aspect of the character not the entire basis for her existence.
There could even be an occasion when a strong female character might wear one of those chain mail bikinis. Maybe it's part of her plan to distract the males she's going into battle against. Maybe she weighs the danger of not being protected against the distraction she would cause and CHOOSES the chain mail bikini. The difference in that character and the majority of the bikini clad vixens in Fantasy books is SHE (the character) chose it as part of the story. There is more to her personality than just that bikini. It wasn't forced on her by an author who didn't write her as anything more than that. See the difference?
We, as authors, need to be aware of the messages we send. Even if we don't intend to. Even if we are writing a story just to entertain and have no underlying message to convey, our readers are still receiving messages from our work. We need to make sure those messages are the right ones. And even though the majority of female warriors in modern fantasy no longer wear the famous chain mail bikini many of them wear some kind of modern equivalent. They are still portrayed as mostly sex objects. If all of our female characters are either helpless maidens or sex objects, what are we saying to our readers? What message are we giving them about women?
This is even more important for those of us who write for Young Adults. Our target audience is at an impressionable age. Without realizing it we could be shaping their perspectives of the world around them. That's a pretty big responsibility. Don't we owe it to our readers to make sure what they take away from our books is positive? Don't we owe it to them to create strong female characters who are more than just their looks or their bodies? Don't we owe it to SOCIETY to help break the stereotypes about females instead of reinforcing the idea that women only fit into two categories? I think so. And one of the best ways to do that is to write about strong well rounded females who break the mold.
To some degree that applies to book covers as well. Especially Sci Fi/Fantasy books. How many books have we seen with scantily (and impractically) dressed women on the covers? The chain mail bikini has been a staple of fantasy art for generations. Those bikini clad women are sexy. Or are they? Are they actually strong sexy women or are they women being objectified and turned into NOTHING more than fodder for male fantasy?
And it's not just the covers either. The female characters in many of those books are either the "damsel in distress" who just stands there and screams or the warrior woman in the chain mail bikini. At least the bikini wearing warriors do something. At least they fight. But are they well rounded sexy characters or just cookie cutter sex objects?
I suspect it's the second one in most cases. Any female character who doesn't have enough sense to put on more than a chain mail bikini before she goes out to fight the bad guys is likely nothing more than eye candy. An intelligent female would know she needs to protect more than just her "assets" if she wants to survive. Hell, she doesn't even have to be all that intelligent to figure it out. If she has two brain cells to rub together, she knows fighting in a bikini is not usually the best idea. There's a lot of exposed flesh to get damaged.
Which brings me to my point... we can create strong intelligent female characters that are ALSO sexy without objectifying them. Sexy doesn't have to equal sex object. But unfortunately too many people don't see the difference.
There's nothing wrong with a female who is confident in herself and enjoys sex. There's nothing wrong with her showing off what she was given to it's best advantage. And there's nothing wrong with making her sexy. As long as that's not ALL there is to her. As long as sexy is just one aspect of the character not the entire basis for her existence.
There could even be an occasion when a strong female character might wear one of those chain mail bikinis. Maybe it's part of her plan to distract the males she's going into battle against. Maybe she weighs the danger of not being protected against the distraction she would cause and CHOOSES the chain mail bikini. The difference in that character and the majority of the bikini clad vixens in Fantasy books is SHE (the character) chose it as part of the story. There is more to her personality than just that bikini. It wasn't forced on her by an author who didn't write her as anything more than that. See the difference?
We, as authors, need to be aware of the messages we send. Even if we don't intend to. Even if we are writing a story just to entertain and have no underlying message to convey, our readers are still receiving messages from our work. We need to make sure those messages are the right ones. And even though the majority of female warriors in modern fantasy no longer wear the famous chain mail bikini many of them wear some kind of modern equivalent. They are still portrayed as mostly sex objects. If all of our female characters are either helpless maidens or sex objects, what are we saying to our readers? What message are we giving them about women?
This is even more important for those of us who write for Young Adults. Our target audience is at an impressionable age. Without realizing it we could be shaping their perspectives of the world around them. That's a pretty big responsibility. Don't we owe it to our readers to make sure what they take away from our books is positive? Don't we owe it to them to create strong female characters who are more than just their looks or their bodies? Don't we owe it to SOCIETY to help break the stereotypes about females instead of reinforcing the idea that women only fit into two categories? I think so. And one of the best ways to do that is to write about strong well rounded females who break the mold.
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
If you build it... err... BLOG IT... they will come?
I've wanted to get serious about blogging for a while and every so often I'll start blogging with frequency. But I quickly get frustrated and bored. There doesn't seem to be much point in blogging when I'm the only person reading it. I know my thoughts, I don't need to write them down for me. :P
I had a very active blog on MySpace once upon a time. It had a lot of readers but better than that, it had a lot of people who participated in the discussions. I loved hearing so many different points of view. But it was also mostly political which is not the kind of blog I'm still interested in having.
I still want to have the discussions, sometimes maybe even on controversial subjects (ie: sex in YA books, violence in video games, etc), but not of a political nature. I want thoughtful discussions where people exchange ideas not heated debates. I still want to hear the opinions of a variety of people, I'd just rather it be on ideas and concepts (fairness, peace, love, bullying, intolerance, etc) rather than political issues. I'd like it to be on things that inspire people to think about something in a different way or open their mind to another perspective rather than divide as politics often does.
So I guess the question is how do you get people interested? How do you get people to visit and contribute to the discussions? And the contributing part is very important to me. I don't just want my opinions and thoughts to be read, I want to hear what other people think as well.
I've heard people say that if you just start blogging on a regular basis you will get readers but is that true? Is it really just a matter of building it and they will come? Isn't there more to it than that?
So if you have any ideas, tips, or tricks to get readers and contributors to visit, please pass them along. I'd love to hear them. I really would love to turn this blog into a place where ideas, thoughts, and inspiration flows. I'm just not sure how to go about it.
I had a very active blog on MySpace once upon a time. It had a lot of readers but better than that, it had a lot of people who participated in the discussions. I loved hearing so many different points of view. But it was also mostly political which is not the kind of blog I'm still interested in having.
I still want to have the discussions, sometimes maybe even on controversial subjects (ie: sex in YA books, violence in video games, etc), but not of a political nature. I want thoughtful discussions where people exchange ideas not heated debates. I still want to hear the opinions of a variety of people, I'd just rather it be on ideas and concepts (fairness, peace, love, bullying, intolerance, etc) rather than political issues. I'd like it to be on things that inspire people to think about something in a different way or open their mind to another perspective rather than divide as politics often does.
So I guess the question is how do you get people interested? How do you get people to visit and contribute to the discussions? And the contributing part is very important to me. I don't just want my opinions and thoughts to be read, I want to hear what other people think as well.
I've heard people say that if you just start blogging on a regular basis you will get readers but is that true? Is it really just a matter of building it and they will come? Isn't there more to it than that?
So if you have any ideas, tips, or tricks to get readers and contributors to visit, please pass them along. I'd love to hear them. I really would love to turn this blog into a place where ideas, thoughts, and inspiration flows. I'm just not sure how to go about it.
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